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When and How to Articulate “I Don’t Know”: Mastering the Art of Admission

Hello, everyone! 🥰 I realize that this extended break didn’t go as I had initially planned, but life had its own agenda. We’ll call it the “adventures of life.” Life happened. We can dive into that later, but for today, I want to share something related to this topic called: When and How to say ‚I do not know‘

In a world that often celebrates knowledge and expertise, it can be challenging to admit when we don’t have the answers. Whether you’re in a professional setting, a social gathering, or even within your own thoughts, the fear of appearing uninformed can hold you back. However, there’s a valuable skill in knowing when and how to say, “I don’t know.” This blog post will explore the importance of this admission and offer guidance on mastering the art of expressing your uncertainty.

The Power of Honesty

First and foremost, let’s recognize that admitting ignorance is not a sign of weakness; it’s a demonstration of honesty and integrity. People appreciate authenticity and are often more inclined to trust those who openly admit when they lack knowledge. Here’s why it’s crucial:

  • Builds Trust: When you admit you don’t know something, it shows you’re trustworthy. Others are more likely to believe in your knowledge when you do express it.
  • Fosters Learning: Acknowledging your gaps in knowledge opens the door to learning. It’s the first step toward acquiring new information and skills.
  • Avoids Misinformation: Pretending to know something you don’t can lead to spreading false information, which is harmful both personally and professionally.

When to Say “I Don’t Know”

The timing of expressing your lack of knowledge is as vital as the act itself. Here are some situations in which it’s beneficial to admit not knowing:

  1. In a Professional Environment: When you’re faced with a question or problem at work, it’s better to acknowledge your ignorance and seek assistance or research rather than providing incorrect information.
  2. During Conversations: In casual conversations or debates, saying “I don’t know” is an honest response. It’s okay not to be an expert on every topic.
  3. Personal Growth: In your own self-reflection, it’s essential to acknowledge what you don’t know. This is the first step toward personal growth and development.

How to Articulate “I Don’t Know”

Expressing your lack of knowledge requires finesse. Here’s how to do it effectively:

  1. Be Direct: Say it simply and directly. “I don’t know” is a complete and honest response.
  2. Follow Up with Action: After admitting your lack of knowledge, turn it into an opportunity for growth. Say, “I don’t know, but I’m eager to learn more about it.”
  3. Seek Help: If applicable, ask for guidance from someone who does know. This shows your willingness to learn.
  4. Research: If the situation allows, commit to finding the answer on your own. This demonstrates initiative.

Conclusion

The ability to admit “I don’t know” is a valuable skill in both personal and professional life. It fosters trust, encourages learning, and avoids the pitfalls of misinformation. Remember, nobody knows everything, and there’s no shame in acknowledging what you don’t know. Master the art of this admission, and you’ll find yourself on a path to continuous growth and authenticity.

Please share your views on what you think we can be able to overcome the power of feeling if we say we don’t know we would be looked down upon.

Till the next post have a lovely weekend❤️.

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Judging others🎤🎤

The last months of last year from October was a trying time for me. I felt I was not in a good state of mind. I was stressed and I got into a habit😱.

I was in a phase that I could not streamline my thoughts.

Then it started… I started judging people, if someone passed me by at work or wherever I was standing, sitting, looking at, in the train, while I was walking, in the restaurant, on the internet. I was constantly judging people either the way they looked, spoke, the race moved, smelt, or behaved.

Every single time I did it I felt like I was being drained of something but then again it came up and it would be back to square one class 101 on judging others.

I realised I spent so much time judging people that I started hating myself, I did not feel the rush of energy I always have ( ask people who know me), I started feeling less of myself and my state of mind became unproductive.t

I slowly started thinking (hey 😨 this is like a tunnel you fall into and climbing out feels like the walls of Jericho to get out.) What would have triggered this Emotion, feeling down and all because the same time I was judging these people it could have also been me they were equally judging. To be honest with you? I did not feel comfortable thinking that it could be me on that pedestal table. For all, I know the same things I did judge others about could also be what they judged me off and even more.

So why did I do it?

I traced it back to the time I started feeling too comfortable in my zone and I wanted more but did not know how to get out, to the time I started feeling inadequate of getting to a certain position in my life. I knew I could change if only I could master my mindset and streamline my thoughts to be about positive things. I am not saying everything and at every time that it has to be perfect, No!! What I am trying to say is that only when this thoughts and feeling starts dominating your thoughts and taking the existence of your happiness from you, then is it paramount for you to change things. Because happiness is the key.

In the following paragraphs, I will be writing three reasons why I think we judge others, what happens when we judge others and why we need to stop judging people.

Why do we Judge Others?

  1. I think we Judge others when our life feels constant and we are seeking for a change. When the feeling of t not moving forward seems unsurmountable, and we get jealous when we see others living their best lives and this pushes us to automatically judge others.
  2. I think we judge others when we are insecure about certain things in our lives and for some, they are clueless about what the problem is and how they can tackle it either from their childhood, family, parents, friends at work, their Bodies and so on. All these tend to lead one to judge others they see as perfect and thereby feeling good when they do it.
  3. I also think we judge others when we feel threatened. Either by the status of your partner, co-worker, friend, celebrity or when these people buy a new car, cloth, house and so on. We become scared that they would keep getting better whilst you stay under.

What happens when we judge others

  1. I think that when we judge others that we also judge ourselves and it makes us not only feel less confident but also we do not seem it able to raise our heads high.
  2. I noticed that while I judged others it was not of what they did to me but the Stereotypes surrounding their ethnicity, their Gender, appearances and language. Forgetting I am human, a woman and in a foreign country and there is practically a stereotype for everyone.
  3. I started thinking negatively and it breeds Negatively impacts in almost anything you think about. This could have an impact not only on yourself but people around you.

Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves

Carl Jung

Why you need to stop Judging

  1. Try to streamline your thoughts on positive things. Find no FAULT in others. Try as much as possible to avoid contact with people who also judge others so you do not fall. Always say something positive in your heart and you will notice that eventually, it will start popping out of your mouth
  2. Avoid Stereotyping people because you do not know them personally and even if you do it will only breed hatred in you.
  3. Try and focus everything in you to manifesting and meditating good things into your life.

There is a story behind every person. There’s a reason why they are the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone

Anonymous

Lastly, do not worry about others and do not judge others. Be kind to yourself and love yourself. Observe things and the world around you and then slowly but surely your perspective will be broadened.

I am getting there eventually because bad energy gat to stay far away😁😂. I cannot change whatever it was I was annoyed about but I can change ME.

Thank you for reading and I will be pleased to read your comments below on why do you judge people? How do you feel about yourself afterwards? And also how can it be stopped?.

I wish you all a lovely February.

@Princesspringles

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Gratitude

When I begin to think about what I have or had been through which in comparison to others is nothing, then I begin to think of 🤔 what would have been if I said the truth, If I wasn’t scared 😟, If I was bold enough, If I was more confident, If I had run and looked for help. If ….. if…. if …. only if…

Yesterday the 31.12.2019 I was thinking out loud and saying that I was grateful for everything last year had brought me and was going to make sure I go in harder next year, which practically starts today. My friend got a little upset that the ‘New year Resolution’ thing is being hyped. He said that there is nothing like a new year but just a new day. I agree with him but not totally.

I see a new year not only as a new day but also a new start. This goes for the decision I will be making, Goals to be attained, bad habits to be broken, to be more focused and committed.

A new year, Yes, could be just another new day, but for me it is the mental feeling I get from it. The feeling that motivates me, encourages my soul and lits the fire that I could be a better me this new year. Oh yes in the middle of the year it may not go as planned but we will keep moving.

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate

Oprah Winfrey

Life is too short to be worrying and complaining but instead focus on how blessed you are for the simple things that you have.

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Whenever I look 👀 back, I know now for sure that whatever happens in your life is your destiny and was predestined to be so.

Despite the challenges I am facing , I always want to be happy and positive even though some could be so hard. But the point is to be grateful and thankful for all you have.

2019 taught me a whole lot of things and gave me a new Dimension in life and also to see things from a different perspective.

Some things are so little we forget to take it into consideration. Little things they are, but are the biggest things. The importance of Gratitude 🙏 , are things like the air we breathe in, the bed we sleep in, food, a roof over our heads, love, happiness, being healthy and happy.

These things fill me in and make me glow from the inside because I am grateful to have these things.

Happiness is the utmost blessing a man can get if he has it. When you realize it the Earth 🌏 would move her best side to you.

How about you? What are you grateful for? Do you believe in New year Resolution? Do you think it is being hyped? Drop in the comment box below on how happy or the experiences you have had.

Happy New year and a wonderful month!

@Princesspringles