Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and angels know of us.
Thomas Paine
Have you ever wondered if you’re a good judge of character? It’s a question many of us grapple with, and the truth is, it’s not always easy to gauge. Some people like to believe they have a keen sense when it comes to reading others, while others might hesitate to make such claims.
Personally, I used to think I wasn’t a particularly good judge of character. I preferred when people revealed their true selves over time, allowing me to form an authentic opinion. I held back judgment until individuals had a chance to prove themselves. However, there’s something to be said about that gut feeling, the instinctive sense that gives us a hint about a person.
We’ve all experienced that belly feeling or aura of unease about someone. For the longest time, I never took it seriously, dismissing it as mere intuition. But lately, I’ve decided to lean into that feeling, and surprisingly, it has never steered me wrong. That premonition, that inner voice telling us to proceed with caution, is more real than we might give it credit for.
I’ve also been fortunate to have friends who possess a knack for judging character accurately. They’ve often warned me from the outset, advising me to be cautious or take a step back. I’m genuinely grateful for their insights, as their perspective has proven invaluable in navigating various relationships.
So, what about you? Do you consider yourself a good judge of character? It’s a skill that can be honed over time, a delicate balance between intuition and observation. Perhaps you’ve had instances where your instincts guided you well, or maybe you’re still figuring it out. Share your thoughts in the comments!
As we approach the festive season, how are your Christmas plans shaping up? I’d love to hear about your holiday traditions and celebrations.
Wishing you all a joyful and merry Christmas in advance! Until my next post, take care and bye for now.❤️🎉
